I was Terrified of Becoming a Mother
I was terrified of becoming a mother. I ran from it. I did so much to prevent it. I was sure I would hate it. I was sure I would not live up to the expectation of it. But you
Read MoreI Prayed for Dark-Skinned Children
So, when I look at my daughter’s deep brown skin, I see my answered prayers and the ending of multi-generational brokenness and lies. I am pleased with her brown eyes. Happy to detangle her tight coils. Love the intensity of her black/brown skin, one of many things my foremothers were systematically denied, the ability to love themselves and their children as they are.
Read MoreParenting is Hard AF and Triggering As Hell
If no one warned you before hand, parenting is hard AF and triggering as hell.
Read MoreTherapy for Parenting
So we went to a therapist and discussed our concerns as parents.
Read MoreMy House Is Rarely Clean & I Don’t Give A Damn
Sometimes, the best form of self-care is ignoring the ish you don't have time or sufficient dambs for, like cleaning or teaching your husband to clean. Since, his mama didn't...
Read MoreDo Right by Her on Mother’s Day
At the end of the day, there is not a cookie cutter way to show the mother of your progeny you appreciate her, consider Bae’s personality and act accordingly.
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